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01 December 2020

  • Cisgender vs. Straight: It’s Not Always One and the Same

    If you aren’t familiar with the many terms used to describe members of LGBTQIA+ communities, they may seem like a big ol’ bowl of alphabet soup. But there’s a good reason for all those terms: People are unique, and varying gender identities and sexual orientations can make it hard to fit into a two-gender box.

    But what about other terms, like “cisgender,” that often (but not always) exist outside the LGBTQIA+ community? Are you automatically straight if you’re cisgender?

    Let us explain cisgender vs. straight.

    Illustration by Brittany England

    So, what does it mean to be cisgender?

    A cisgender, or “cis,” person identifies as the gender they were assigned at birth. So a cisgender person’s sex on their original birth certificate matches their current gender identity.

    You might also see terms like “assigned male at birth” (AMAB) or “assigned female at birth” (AFAB) used to describe someone’s birth gender.

    If a person’s gender identity doesn’t match the gender they were assigned at birth, they may identify as transgender or nonbinary.

    Are you always male or female at birth?

    In the United States, there’s a legal movement for a more inclusive approach to gender. Currently, 13 states allow you to change your birth certificate to say “male,” “female,” or the gender-neutral option “X.”

    What does it mean to be straight?

    Identifying as straight is pretty, er, straightforward. Having a sexual orientation of straight means that someone’s attraction, either sexual or romantic, is to a gender other than their own.

    This definition is deeply ingrained in societal norms. A straight relationship is typically between a person who identifies as a man and a person who identifies as a woman.

    What’s the difference between cisgender and straight?

    Cisgender” is a gender identity. Gender identity describes how a person identifies themself, such as man, woman, nonbinary, or another identity they prefer. So if someone who was assigned male at birth identifies as a man, he’d be a cisgender male.

    “Straight” is a sexual orientation, which describes one’s attraction to other people. Someone is straight if they identify as one gender and are attracted to the “opposite” gender.

    A straight relationship is typically seen as involving a cisgender male and a cisgender female. But people whose gender differs from the one they were assigned at birth can still be straight if they’re attracted to a different gender.

    What is gender, and how does it relate to sex?

    When Murray in “Clueless” refers to Dionne as “woman,” that’s her gender. But calling her “female,” well, that would be her sex. What’s the difference? It’s not a simple answer.

    Gender is typically influenced by society, not biology, and is responsible for the association of certain traits, language, behavior, and characteristics with being a man or a woman. But gender can be more complex and nuanced than the binary terms.

    A person’s gender is often conflated with their sex. Sex is traditionally designated by doctors based on a person’s genitalia at birth. But gender identity is a more expansive view that goes beyond your sex. For example, a trans man could have female genitalia but identify as a man, not a woman.

    Bottom line: Your sex (based on genitalia) doesn’t have to “match” your gender (how you identify). Your gender identity isn’t stuck in the construct of your sex.

    What about intersex?

    The term “intersex” refers to someone’s biological sex not fitting into the binary of male or female. But this term doesn’t dictate gender.

    When a person is born intersex, their genitalia, sex organs, hormones, or chromosomes have both female- and male-identifying characteristics. This means an intersex person can have both a uterus and testicles, but they could identify as a man, a woman, nonbinary, etc.

    This is also known as a person having a difference in sex development (DSD). It occurs naturally, although some characteristics don’t develop until later in life. Research suggests that about 1 in 100 people are born with DSDs.

    So, is a person either cisgender or transgender?

    As with most things related to gender, it’s not as simple as a person being either cisgender or transgender.

    To be either cisgender or transgender still relies on the gender binary of male or female as the framework. Have a penis and identify as a man? Cisgender. Assigned male at birth but identify as a woman? Transgender.

    Other gender identities or expressions that don’t always fit into the category of cisgender or transgender include:

    • Nonbinary. Some folks don’t identify as either a man or a woman, while others identify as both. “Nonbinary” is often used as an umbrella term for people whose gender identities exist outside the binary of man and woman.
    • Gender-fluid. A person can also identify as gender-fluid, which means their gender identity is not fixed — instead, they move between identities. One moment “man” fits, and another “woman” feels best.
    • Gender nonconforming. This means someone’s gender expression doesn’t match the gender they were assigned at birth. But people who identify as gender nonconforming may also identify as cisgender.

    These are just a few examples. There are more than 64 terms that can describe a person’s gender identity or expression.

    The deal with gender identify

    Gender identity is up to each individual to decide. And someone’s gender identity may not match their gender expression. For example, someone may identify as a woman, but their appearance may be masculine.

    Gay, straight, or something in between?

    Sexual orientation is a spectrum, which means someone can identify in a myriad of ways beyond straight and gay.

    Some (but not all) of the possible sexual orientations include:

    • Gay. Sexual and romantic attraction to people of the same gender.
    • Straight. Sexual and romantic attraction to people of a different gender.
    • Queer. Often used to encompass the fluidity of one’s sexual orientation as not straight. (You can also choose not to identify with any sexual orientation at all.)
    • Bisexual. Sexual attraction to people of the same gender and other genders.
    • Biromantic. Romantic attraction to people of the same gender and other genders.
    • Asexual. Experiencing little to no sexual attraction to anyone.
    • Aromantic. Experiencing little to no romantic attraction to any gender.

    The deal with sexual orientation

    Your sexual orientation can be unique to your sexual and romantic attractions. Some people view their sexual orientation as fluid, falling in a different place along the spectrum at any given moment. Others can experience romantic attraction to the same gender but sexual attraction to all genders.

    What does “cishet” mean?

    If you identify as cisgender and straight, you are considered cishet — this term is an abbreviation of “cisgender and heterosexual.”

    So, a person who is cishet identifies as the gender they were given at birth and is attracted to a different gender.

    So, are all cisgender people straight?

    Since “cisgender” is a gender identity and “straight” is a sexual orientation, one doesn’t determine the other.

    These are two separate and individual identities. Some cisgender people identify as gay, bisexual, queer, pansexual, fluid, or any number of other identities that makes them not straight.

    Are all transgender people not straight?

    You can be transgender and straight. There are people whose gender identity doesn’t match the one they were assigned at birth but who experience attraction only to those of a different gender.

    A poll from analytics company Gallup found that 66 percent of transgender people who were asked identified as straight.

    A transgender man who is attracted only to women would be straight.

    Why do we have all these dang labels?

    “Gay or straight” doesn’t cover all the ways people experience romantic love or sexual attraction. In the same vein, looking at gender as solely “man” or “woman” leaves out nonbinary, intersex, and other expansive gender identities.

    These terms exist so each individual can use the term that works best for them. If your favorite color were blue, you likely wouldn’t take kindly to someone telling you that your favorite color had to be yellow or red. Sexual orientation and gender identity are not one-size-fits-all.

    How do you know the right terms to use?

    Don’t assume everyone you meet is cisgender or straight. Someone could be gay, straight, or anything in between.

    If you’re unsure of someone’s gender identity, you can always ask, “What are you pronouns?” Just know that it’s never OK to reveal someone else’s sexual orientation or gender identity unless you have their permission.

    Common pronouns:

    • she/her
    • he/him
    • they/them (for one person)

    But some folks might not feel comfortable telling you, and that’s OK too. If you know a person’s identity, respect their pronouns. And if you don’t, try to use nonbinary language like “folks” or “they/them,” or just use their name.

    A way to share your pronouns when introducing yourself could be “My name is ______, and my pronouns are she/her.” You can also share your pronouns on your social media and other identifying places.

    The takeaway

    It’s not a question of cisgender vs. straight, because this combination is not mutually exclusive. “Cisgender” and “straight” represent two squares on the much larger quilt of possible identities.

    Each individual is the best possible expert on which gender identity and sexual orientation fit them. So before you assume, consult the expert.

  • Kcal vs. Calories: What’s the Diff?

    You probably know the deal with calories when you see them labeled on a snack, but WTF are kilocalories?

    To recap, calories are how we measure the amount of energy in food and drinks and the amount of energy we burn during a sweat session. But not every dot on the map measures energy the same way. Instead, some places use kilocalories (kcal) and kilojoules (kJ) to measure energy in food.

    This can get a bit confusing, so let’s clear things up about kcals vs. calories.

    Design by Viviana Quevedo; Photograph by Alxpin/Getty Images

    Science time: What’s the difference between kcal and calories? 

    If we’re talkin’ cals, these can be “small” or “large” calories. A capital “C” in “calories” signals a large calorie, while a lowercase “c” means it’s small.

    A small calorie is roughly the total energy needed to bump up the temperature of 1 gram (0.035 ounces) of water by 1°C (1.8°F).

    On the flip side, a large calorie approximates the total energy needed to increase the temperature of 1 kilogram (2.2 pounds) of water by 1°C (1.8°F). 

    One large calorie equals 1,000 small calories (since 1 kilogram equals 1,000 grams).

    So, how many calories are in a kilocalorie? 

    To make small and large calories a little less confusing, it’s assumed that the prefix “kilo” in the term “kilocalorie” was intended to point to the large calorie. So, a kilocalorie = a large calorie.

    Unfortch, the small calorie term is hardly ever used, except in chemistry and physics research. For us outside the lab, a small calorie is a pretty useless measurement.

    Wait… so what is a regular calorie, then? The terms “calories” — without the capitalization distinction — and “kcals” are tossed around interchangeably to describe the same energy amount for both food and fitness purposes.

    So basically, “calories” and “kilocalories” usually mean the same dang thing.

    Other calorie measurements

    Energy in food can also be measured in kilojoules (kJ). One calorie (kcal) equals 4.18 kJ or 4,184 joules (J).

    If you’re looking to convert calories to kJ, multiply the number of calories by 4.18. To convert kJ to calories, divide the number of kJ by 4.18.

    For example: A banana (118 grams) has about 105 calories (kcal) or 439 kJ.

    Kilocalorie vs. calorie: How do you use each term?

    Food and beverage regulations require manufacturers to showcase a Nutrition Facts label on products. This is to identify the amount of energy the food or drink has per serving (or per a certain weight).

    The labels slapped on food products keep buyers informed about the healthfulness (or not-so-healthfulness) of the foods and drinks. They also list ingredients and other information so buyers can accommodate allergies, intolerances, or general preferences in what they eat.

    The way these labels express calorie or kilocalorie information varies depending on where you live.

    Here’s a handy list of countries and their corresponding labels:

    Kcal to calories nutrition converter: How much is in your food? 

    The number of kilocalories/calories in a food or beverage is determined by the manufacturer and depends on the amount of energy from nutrients the item has.

    The three main nutrients that give us energy are protein, carbs, and fats. Protein and carbs both contain around 4 calories (16.7 kJ) per gram, whereas fat provides 9 calories (37.6 kJ) per gram. Booze has 7 calories (29.3 kJ) per gram.

    Manufacturers arrive at these figures by rounding to the closest 1-gram increment, so if you’re measuring the amount of calories or kJ from each of the macronutrients, there’s a chance they may add up a little differently than the figure you see on the nutrition label.

    Plus, the nutrition labels for foods that contain fiber (which is categorized as a carb) may have fewer calories than you estimate. Why? Depending on the type of fiber, it’s going to be either indigestible or badly digested, providing few or no calories. 

    Bottom line

    We use calories to measure energy in both our food and our fitness routines.

    The terms “calories” and “kilocalories” are used interchangeably to describe the amount of energy found in food. Whether food and drink labels list calories or kcals depends on geographic location.

  • Vitamin D and the Coronavirus: Is It Casual or a Serious Relationship?

    While we’ve stayed physically distanced and isolated throughout the pandemic, there’s been a lot of hubbub about vitamin D and the new coronavirus. But is this relationship merely a coincidence, or should you be adding vitamin D to your COVID-19 tool kit?

    We’ve done the vitamin D and coronavirus research for you to see just how vitamin D affects COVID-19.

    Marc Tran/Stocksy United

    Vitamin D refresher

    Vitamin D is a fat-soluble vitamin. Your body actually creates the active form of vitamin D when the sun hits your skin. And while you can get some vitamin D from food, the sun helps you soak up 50 to 90 percent of your vitamin D.

    If you live in a place that doesn’t get much sunlight, you’re at a bigger risk of vitamin D deficiency. Older age, darker skin tone, and medical conditions that cause fat malabsorption can also contribute to a deficiency.

    While we’re learning more about the new coronavirus every day, we do know that the new coronavirus attacks the respiratory system. And lo and behold, vitamin D supports the immune system and respiratory health. Here’s what some studies have found.

    Immune system health

    Vitamin D is super important to keep your immune system in tip-top shape.

    Basically, according to research, vitamin D helps deploy an immune response when a potential infection attacks your body. It also helps gear up immune cells like T cells and macrophages to protect your body from invaders.

    So if you have a weaker immune system, you’re naturally more prone to illnesses, which could include COVID-19.

    Vitamin D deficiency

    According to a 2020 article, vitamin D deficiency is often seen in people who have severe COVID-19 complications like:

    • pneumonia
    • severe acute respiratory distress syndrome
    • myocarditis (inflammation of the heart muscle)
    • cytokine storms (severe immune reactions causing inflammation)

    All these conditions create underlying inflammation, which can be controlled by T regulatory lymphocytes (aka Tregs). Basically, these cells can regulate or suppress other immune system cells and control the immune response to fight an invading disease.

    The same article noted that low levels of Treg cells are reported in people who have COVID-19, and vitamin D supplementation can increase Treg levels. So, the researchers suggest, if vitamin D can increase Treg levels, it might also be able to help reduce the severity of COVID-19. But right now this is just a theory.

    Respiratory health

    Back before the new coronavirus was around, a 2017 research review found that participants who took daily or weekly vitamin D supplements were more protected against acute respiratory tract infections. This was especially true for people who had a vitamin D deficiency.

    With that in mind, it’s no wonder researchers wanted to see if vitamin D could help prevent COVID-19.

    Can vitamin D help prevent COVID-19, then?

    The short answer: We don’t know. Vitamin D is definitely not a substitute for masks and physical distancing for virus prevention. But research does suggest a few relationships between vitamin D levels and the new coronavirus that might make it a helpful coronavirus vitamin.

    Recent research suggests a link between sun exposure and COVID-19 mortality. Countries located farther from the equator (and thus with less sun) had higher numbers of COVID-19 deaths, possibly because of the prevalence of vitamin D deficiency.

    This evidence is circumstantial, which means that although fingers are being pointed at vitamin D deficiency, the connection to COVID-19 has not been proven.

    Another 2020 study looked for an association between low vitamin D levels and COVID-19. Of the 7,807 people in the study, only about 10 percent tested positive for COVID-19, and almost 90 percent tested negative.

    The people who tested positive had lower mean plasma vitamin D levels than those who tested negative, but the difference wasn’t significant. Positive levels averaged 19.00 ng/mL, and negative levels averaged 20.55 ng/mL. This minor difference doesn’t show much correlation between vitamin D levels and COVID-19.

    Plus, low vitamin D level was dubbed an “independent risk factor,” which means it’s associated with the study outcome but there were other factors in play. These included being over 50 years old, being male, and being of low-medium socioeconomic status.

    The bottom line on vitamin D and COVID-19 prevention

    There appears to be a relationship between COVID-19 cases and low vitamin D levels. But researchers haven’t yet determined the cause of low vitamin D levels that might make you more prone to infection.

    As of now, we can’t be certain that vitamin D prevents COVID-19, but it can help your immune system.

    So what else might affect the vitamin D and coronavirus relationship?

    It’s possible that other correlations between vitamin D and the new coronavirus might make all these studies look like BS. But it’s a bit more complicated than that.

    A lot of studies and reviews are showing a beneficial outcome, but nothing is set in stone because there are too many variables to consider.

    One 2020 review shared other evidence factors that link vitamin D levels with the new coronavirus:

    • The outbreak happened in winter, when vitamin D levels are at their lowest.
    • The number of COVID-19 cases in the Southern Hemisphere near the end of summer was low (because the Southern Hemisphere has sunshine).
    • Vitamin D deficiency contributes to acute respiratory distress syndrome.
    • Fatality rates increase with age and chronic disease — both factors that are associated with low vitamin D levels.

    The review ends by stating that randomized controlled trials and large population studies need to be done to evaluate these recommendations.

    The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) also states that people with certain medical conditions are at an increased risk of severe illness (hospitalization, intubation, or even death) from COVID-19.

    Some of these conditions are:

    • cancer
    • chronic kidney disease
    • chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD)
    • obesity or severe obesity
    • type 2 diabetes
    • pregnancy

    Many of these conditions are also associated with a risk of vitamin D deficiency.

    We just need more info

    So could the higher risk of COVID-19 severity be linked to the medical condition itself, while low vitamin D is just a factor? To find out, we need more research on larger and more diverse groups of people.

    Can vitamin D help treat COVID-19?

    Research related to the new coronavirus is ongoing and constantly changing, but right now there isn’t much promising information to suggest that vitamin D can help treat COVID-19.

    Researchers in a 2020 study said they had found reason to believe vitamin D might help treat COVID-19, but their data was flawed. The editors of the peer-reviewed journal published an “expression of concern” about the study’s questionable sample size and noted that only about 31 percent of the participants actually had tests confirming a COVID-19 diagnosis.

    The bottom line on vitamin D and COVID-19 treatment

    There’s no substantial info yet to support theories about using vitamin D as a COVID-19 treatment.

    Should you still take a vitamin D supplement?

    Taking a vitamin D supplement may not be the COVID-19 cure you were hoping for, but it still comes with a lot of benefits. Plus, about 50 percent of the world’s population doesn’t get enough vitamin D (meaning we need it, COVID or not).

    Obviously, your immune system is crucial to fight infection, and vitamin D is necessary to keep that system strong. But vitamin D can also help keep your bones strong (potentially reducing fractures) and benefit your mental health.

    How much vitamin D should you take?

    The recommended dietary allowances (RDAs) for Vitamin D are:

    • Ages 12 months and younger: 400 IU (10 mcg)
    • Ages 1 to 70 years: 600 IU (15 mcg)
    • Ages 71 years and older: 800 IU (20 mcg)

    Supplements will often contain more than the RDA because there is also a daily upper limit of 100 mcg (4,000 IU). This is for children above 9 years old, adults, and pregnant or breastfeeding folks. Reaching this level could require higher dosages of vitamin D beyond the RDA for some people but not for others.

    Before you stock up on vitamin D supplements, chat with your healthcare provider. They’ll be able to confirm whether it’s safe for you to take the supplement and recommend dosages. 

    Best ways to protect yourself from COVID-19

    If you’ve heard it once, you’ve heard it a thousand times: Some of the standard preventive measures for COVID-19 are physical distancing (at least 6 feet) and wearing a mask in public.

    Other recommendations from the CDC:

    • Wash up. Wash your hands with soap and water, scrubbing for at least 20 seconds, especially after you sneeze, cough, or blow your nose. In a pinch, you can also use hand sanitizer that’s at least 60 percent alcohol.
    • Clean. Disinfect those frequently touched surfaces on the reg. This includes desks, phones, keyboards, countertops, doorknobs… the list could go on.
    • Monitor your health. Be aware of how you’re feeling and watch for symptoms such as fever, cough, or shortness of breath.

    Get your flu shot!

    Cold and flu season is upon us. That means healthcare systems will be bombarded with patients who are battling both the flu and COVID-19.

    Getting the flu vaccine will help reduce your chances of getting sick and could preserve healthcare resources for people dealing with COVID-19 (which has a possible vaccine in the works!).

    Bottom line: Time will tell if this relationship is legit

    Although current research suggests a relationship between low levels of vitamin D and COVID-19, more research is needed.

    Right now we can’t conclude that taking vitamin D can help prevent you from contracting the new coronavirus. Wearing a mask, physical distancing, and washing your hands are still your top options.

    In the meantime, taking a vitamin D supplement probably won’t hurt, and it can help bolster your immune system, which might increase your chances of avoiding COVID-19. Most of us don’t get enough vitamin D anyway and could use a boost.

    It’s a good idea to check with your healthcare provider before taking any new supplement, especially if you have any preexisting medical conditions or take any medications that could interact with the vitamin.

  • You Say Hello, I Say Good-Biromantic

    Attraction isn’t only sexual in nature, which is why the term “bisexual” doesn’t resonate with some peeps who are attracted to multiple genders. Some folks need an emotional, romantic connection beyond the physical to feel attraction, so they may prefer the term biromantic.

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    Let’s not talk about sex, baby: defining biromantic

    What does it mean to be biromantic? It means that a person is attracted to multiple genders. While the prefix bi means two, in this case it doesn’t necessarily refer to the gender binary of only men and women.

    Instead, biromanticism means someone may be attracted to their own and genders other than their own, or even to all genders. This means a person can be attracted to someone who identifies as non-binary and still be biromantic. Someone who is attracted to all genders may also identify as panromantic.

    Being biromantic differs from bisexuality because this attraction is about how the person makes your heart feel and not how they make your sexy parts feel. They make you blush but they don’t get you flushed. Catch the drift?

    Signs you’re biromantic

    Dating is complicated, but how you define who you’re into doesn’t have to be. There are several signs you might be biromantic.

    1. When you think about a future partner, you think about how they make you feel and their gender isn’t an important factor.
    2. When you’re dating, gender doesn’t play a role in deciding who you want to spend time with or commit to.
    3. You can picture yourself in a romantic relationships with people of varying gender identities, whether your own or different than your own.

    Romantic and sexual orientations

    Since sexual orientation and romantic attraction don’t always align, it’s possible to identify as both biromantic and another sexual identity.

    Biromantic covers how you feel about others romantically, but another term may be needed to explain how you identify in a sexual sense. Here’s a few common combinations of biromanticism and sexual identities.

    Biromantic asexual

    If you’re biromantic asexual, you feel romantic and emotional attraction to multiple genders but sexual attraction to zero genders.

    Many people who identify as asexual still want to build relationships in a way that has nothing to do with sex. This doesn’t mean biromantic asexuals never do the nasty, but it means that isn’t a factor in who they decide to date or build a relationship with.

    Keep in mind, sexual desire is not the same as sexual attraction. Desire is about the act whereas attraction is tied to the sexual partner. Biromantic asexuality may look different and it’s up to each individual to define what that looks like for them.

    Biromantic demisexual

    Demisexual is a sexual orientation that means a person must feel a romantic connection with someone in order to be sexually attracted to them. A one-night stand, though gratifying for some, is not likely a goal of a demisexual.

    Combine a demisexual identity with being biromantic and it means you are emotionally drawn to multiple genders. Once you make that emotional connection with a person of any gender, then you desire a sexual relationship as well.

    Biromantic heterosexual

    Before you think that biromantic heterosexual is an oxymoron, remember that sexual orientation and romantic attraction can differ. In this case, a person feels a deep emotional romantic connection to people of multiple genders, but only sexually attracted to a different gender.

    For example, being a biromantic heterosexual woman means that a person is romantically attracted to people of multiple genders, but only experiences sexual attraction to men.

    Biromantic homosexual

    Being biromatic homosexual means a person experiences romantic attraction to multiple genders but sexually only wants to do the deed with someone of their own gender.

    For example, a biromantic woman experiences emotional attraction to multiple genders but only experiences sexual attraction to women.

    These are just a few examples of possible sexual orientations that can go along with biromanticism.

    Support is out there

    There are online resources that may help in better understanding what it means to be biromantic and how to talk about it with your friends and family.

    • The Bisexual Resource Center is a 501(c)3 nonprofit with a 35-year history in providing resources to folks who identify as bi, pan, or fluid.
    • GLAAD is a leader in changing the conversation and promoting LGBTQ+ acceptance.
    • The Trevor Project is the resource for LGBTQ+ youth. They offer a 24/7 hotline to provide immediate and life-saving support.

    The bottom line

    Coming out is a journey. Sexual orientation and attraction can be fluid and identity labels can change. Show yourself kindness through the process.

    Seek support from accepting family and friends. Don’t feel pressure to define your biromanticism by anyone else’s terms. Remember, your identity is yours to define, or to not define.

  • Full-Spectrum vs. Broad-Spectrum CBD: Meet Your CBD Match

    Oil or gummies. Tinctures and pills. Full-spectrum vs. broad-spectrum CBD.

    Thinking about jumping on the cannabidiol wagon but not sure where to begin? It can be pretty intimidating, so let’s start with the basics.

    What exactly is CBD?

    CBD, aka cannabidiol, is just one of more than 60 cannabinoids in marijuana plants.

    Tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) is the one that’s famous for getting folks high. Unlike THC, CBD won’t make you high. Instead, it could help you sleep better and feel less stressed.

    In sum: Think of CBD as THC’s chill sober cousin.

    What are the main types of CBD?

    Not all CBD is the same — especially when it comes to full-spectrum vs. broad-spectrum CBD.

    The devil is in the details:

    • Full-spectrum CBD contains all the cannabinoids of the plant, includingTHC.
    • Broad-spectrum CBD can contain any number of cannabinoids but notTHC.
    • CBD isolate is pure cannabidiol. There’s no THC or other cannabinoids. 

    Full-spectrum vs. broad-spectrum

    Question: What’s the difference?

    Answer: Full-spectrum CBD contains high-inducing THC, while broad-spectrum CBD does not.

    Let’s talk full-spectrum CBD

    Full-spectrum CBD is said to have more benefits than broad-spectrum because of the entourage effect.This theory suggests that when all compounds of the cannabis plant are taken together, they offer more benefits than when they’re taken separately.

    So far, the entourage effect is just a theory. But some research suggests that taking phytocannabinoids (like CBD + THC) and terpenes (another component of the plant) together may better ease issues such as:

    So, people who don’t mind a little THC could possibly maximize the effects of CBD by choosing a full-spectrum CBD product. 

    The best full-spectrum CBD products

    Full-spectrum CBD products are available in an array of forms and potencies. Here are a few recs to get you started. 

    Pricing guide

    • $ = under $50
    • $$ = $50–75
    • $$$ = over $75

    1. Best full-spectrum CBD oil: NuLeaf Naturals Full-Spectrum Hemp CBD Oil – 900mg

    Price: $$$

    NuLeaf Naturals Full-Spectrum Hemp CBD Oil is the total package. It’s a whole-plant extract that combines cannabinoids, terpenes, and virgin hempseed oil.

    It comes in a variety of sizes, which is nice if you want to try it out or take it only occasionally.

    The company uses organic, U.S.-grown hemp and a CO2 extraction process to yield a more potent blend. That means the product contains significant amounts of secondary cannabinoids for a little extra oomph. #winning

    Order Joy Organics Premium CBD Oil.

    2. Best full-spectrum CBD gummy: Charlotte’s Web CBD Gummies – Calm

    Price: $

    Charlotte’s Web CBD Calm Gummies are formulated to help relieve stress and improve focus. Dreamy, right?

    Charlotte’s Web uses U.S.-grown hemp and natural flavorings. The products are formulated with proprietary hemp genetics that feature naturally occurring phytocannabinoids, terpenes, flavonoids, and lemon balm. These are an affordable option for on-the-go stress relief.

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    3. Best full-spectrum CBD tincture: Absolute Nature CBD Full-Spectrum 1,000mg CBD Oil Drops/Tincture

    Price: $$$

    Absolute Nature CBD Full-Spectrum Tincture is made with only two ingredients: whole-plant CBD oil and MCT oil. It’s non-GMO and claims to contain a high amount of CBD + other naturally occurring cannabinoids and beneficial compounds from the cannabis plant.

    Basically, it’s designed to provide the best possible benefits without producing a high. 

    This product is a bit pricey. But since it’s grown without chemicals, additives, or preservatives, it might just be worth it.

    Order Absolute Nature CBD Full-Spectrum 1,000mg CBD Oil Drops/Tincture.

    What about broad-spectrum CBD?

    Broad-spectrum CBD is the way to go if you want all the chill vibes with none of the THC-induced high.

    Just keep in mind that taking CBD without THC might not be as effective as taking the two together. It’s that whole entourage effect theory.

    That said, broad-spectrum CBD still contains other cannabinoids, terpenes, and flavonoids that might boost the benefits beyond what you’d get from CBD alone.

    The best broad-spectrum CBD products

    There are dozens, if not hundreds, of broad-spectrum CBD products on the market. Here are the ones that meet our standards (more on that below).

    Pricing guide

    $ = under $50
    $$ = $50–75
    $$$ = over $75

    1. Best broad-spectrum CBD oil: Joy Organics Premium CBD Oil – Mint, 450 mg

    Price: $$

    Joy Organics CBD Oil Tinctures are formulated to provide quick, easy results. Each drop contains 0.0 percent THC phytocannabinoid-rich hemp oil. No alcohol, binders, fillers, or dyes. The super-simple tincture should be safe to take any time of the day or night.

    The family-founded company uses U.S.-grown hemp and tests each batch of products for consistency. The company’s high standards + the money-back guarantee = a comfort to new customers.

    Order Joy Organics Premium CBD Oil.

    2. Best broad-spectrum CBD gummy: Hawaiian Choice Fruit Jellies

    Price: $

    These fruit jellies are not your average gummies. They’re handcrafted in small batches with Hawaiian Lilikoʻi (passion fruit), pineapple. and ʻŌlena (turmeric). Bonus points for being vegan and containing no artificial colors or flavors!

    The company refers to these as grown-up CBD gummies. Each jelly contains 25 milligrams (mg) of broad-spectrum CBD and absolutely no THC.

    Hawaiian Choice recommends popping 1 or 2 gummies a day, but there are only 4 jellies per package — so maybe order a few boxes at a time. 

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    3. Best broad-spectrum CBD tincture: Sunday Scaries CBD Oil Tincture with Vitamins

    Price: $$

    Besides having an awesome name, Sunday Scaries CBD Oil offers a slightly stronger-than-average dose of CBD. Whether you need to sleep like a baby, chill on a turbulent plane ride, or enhance your meditation practice, this CBD tincture will get it done.

    The tincture is made with the company’s signature proprietary blend of broad-spectrum CBD + vitamins B12 and D3. Each bottle contains a higher dose of 500 mg of CBD mixed with coconut oil.

    It tastes like fruit punch, so it’s a yummy addition to teas, smoothies, and H2O.

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    How we found our top CBD picks 

    Finding the best CBD for you is no easy feat. While we can’t claim to have tried them all, we *have* whittled down a list of products based on safety, quality, and transparency (not just CBD quantity alone).

    Every product on our list:

    • is made by a company that provides proof of third-party testing by an ISO 17025-compliant lab
    • is made with U.S.-grown hemp, according to the company
    • contains no more than 0.3 percent THC, according to the company’s certificate of analysis (COA)
    • is free of pesticides, heavy metals, residual solvents, and molds, according to the company’s COA

    Also important to our selection:

    • each company’s certifications and manufacturing processes
    • product strength
    • overall quality of ingredients
    • stellar customer reviews
    • other indicators of brand reputation (companies that make unsupported health claims or that have been subject to an FDA warning letter = no bueno)

    Tips for finding your fave CBD product

    Maybe you’ve already tried the full-spectrum and broad-spectrum CBD products on our list. Maybe you want to keep looking for more brands or flavors.

    If you’re still shopping around, keep these tips in mind:

    • Read product labels carefully. Pay special attention to the type of carrier oil and the concentration of CBD.
    • Make sure the manufacturer has an up-to-date certificate of analysis (COA), which is proof of third-party testing.
    • Consider the CBD source and type. Look for U.S.-grown hemp for products aligned with strict agricultural regulations.
    • Federally legal CBD products must contain less than 0.3 percent THC. #TheMoreYouKnow
    • Read the reviews! Other customers can help you determine if the product will suit your needs.
    • Be on the lookout for over-the-top marketing jargon. CBD products are not a cure-all.

    How to use CBD

    How you use CBD depends on the type of product you buy.

    Pills are straightforward. Same with gummies — you eat them. But always follow directions on the product label.

    Oils or tinctures are typically placed under your tongue for fast absorption. You can also add them to smoothies, liquids, or food.

    For topical treatments, check the product label’s instructions.

    PSA on dosage

    CBD dosage can get tricky, especially if you’re a newcomer to the world of edibles. Here’s your new mantra: Start low and go slow.

    Most products have a recommended dosage, but that doesn’t mean you have to start there.

    Is CBD safe?

    CBD is considered generally safe. Research is still being conducted on how CBD could interact with other medications or drugs.

    If you have liver disease, be careful with CBD and talk with your healthcare provider before trying it. Also, we don’t know what effects CBD might have on babies, so be cautious if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding.

    Currently, the FDA doesn’t guarantee the safety of CBD products except for *one* approved pharmaceutical CBD drug that’s been proven to help with seizures.

    If you have questions about whether CBD is right for you, don’t be shy — talk with your healthcare provider.

    Any side effects?

    Yep. As with most supplements and medications, you could have some bummer issues with CBD.

    Potential side effects of CBD include:

    Minimize your risk by following the dosing instructions and talking with a healthcare provider. It’s always a good idea to reach out to a medical professional for recommendations. Every body is different.


    The choice between full-spectrum and broad-spectrum CBD comes down to one thing: THC or no THC.

    If you concerned about getting high from THC, stick with broad-spectrum CBD. If you’re hoping for stronger effects, try full-spectrum CBD.

    There are hundreds of CBD products and thousands of glowing customer reviews. The most important factor in choosing a product is quality ingredients.

    Do your research and talk with your doc before starting any new CBD regimen.

    Is CBD legal? Marijuana-derived CBD products are illegal on the federal level but are legal under some state laws. Hemp-derived CBD products (with less than 0.3 percent THC) are legal on the federal level but are still illegal under some state laws. Check the laws in your state and anywhere you plan to travel. Keep in mind that nonprescription CBD products are not FDA-approved and may be inaccurately labeled.